We’re Losing Our Religion

We’re Losing Our Religion

Written by Veron Graham

Topics: Philosophy: The Quest

Something is happening in America’s religious climate and many churches are feeling it. Whether they are acutely aware of it, or willing to undergo the fundamental changes needed to respond, is another matter.

I just read a study from the Pew Report on Religion and Public Life which points to a significant change happening among the younger generation of the western world. 

The study shows that young people are less likely to be connected to a church or organized religion, but they are just as likely to be as spiritually inclined as their parents and grandparents were at the same age.

Here are a few things the Pew Forum study revealed (For entire study, and article visit CNN, and Pew Forum):

  • Study looks at religion of so-called millennial generation, those age 18-29
  • One in four American millennials — which it defined as those who were born after 1980 and came of age around the millennium — are not affiliated with any faith tradition.
  • Two in three millennials said that they believe in God
  • They are slightly more supportive than their elders of government efforts to protect morality, as well as somewhat more comfortable with involvement in politics by churches and other houses of worship.

While growing numbers of people are unaffiliated, it’s not necessarily a sign that they’re committed secularists,” said Greg Smith, a senior researcher at the Pew Forum. “We’re seeing among young people that there are ways of practicing faith and being religious outside of belonging to a religious organization or attending services.”

This is something that I sort of sensed over the past few years, but wasn’t sure if it was actually happening.  A big reason I started this blog, was because of personal experiences w/the limits of religious life, and a gut feeling, that much of traditional Christianity seemed to be losing its relevance in the lives of some who genuinely were interested in God, but just didn’t want all that other stuff.

I noticed that some of my friends were spiritual, or had some interest or belief in God, but didn’t have the background in organized religion like I had.  This gap in familiarity, among other factors, often seemed to cause them to be wary of church life.  And in all honesty, I couldn’t totally fault them.

I think this study may also speak to those who are familiar with aspects of religion, but, again, just have an issue with the extra stuff…

“Church is difficult because young people today want to engage actively,” Hill said. “They just want to experience God.”

There needed, and still needs to be more non-threatening spaces where the spiritually curious can meet to discover, have conversations surrounding the quest for truth, and organize around socially conscious efforts, without becoming encumbered with the forms, rituals, and distractions that “doing church” can bring.

A lot of people are past worrying about dress, having to learn Christianese, or being judged for some perceived fault or abnormality, and simply want to know if God is real.

Even for me, who grew up with a strong Christian religious tradition and now decided to critically re-examine everything for myself, I can sense the temptation to just succumb to the comfort and familiarity of what a traditional church setting can become, and ignore my responsibility to be socially relevant.

What’s interesting, is to see the ways this emerging group of seekers are finding to connect with God and each other, in new and creative ways.

I’m not anti religion.  I think life is too complex to make this an either or debate.  I’ve benefited immensely by my upbringing in a Christian home, and have my parents and community to thank for that.  There’s good and bad in just about every institution man has put its hands on.  However, I do think there is an opportunity for traditional churches, who are courageous enough, to explore where they can abandon inferior traditions and refocus on the simple core truths that began the movement, but if not, well, it seems to be happening with or without them.

I hope to explore some of these alternative groups, and share the unique spiritual experiences of this emerging demographic of more spiritual than religious folk.

Why do you think 18-30 year olds are less religious?  Are you more religious or spiritual?

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  • Stephanie
    i've had this particular blogpost bookmarked for so long and finally got around to reading it.....! finally!!

    Have you heard of the Emerging Church? I first heard of this in college (oh-so-long ago!) and a friend (who was a Sociology and Religious Studies major) ended up doing a case study on this movement for her Senior Research. According to Wikipedia its "a group of people who are disillusioned with the organized and institutional church and seek to deconstruct modern Christian worship and modern evangelism."

    Basically its turned into a group of 18-30 year olds seeking relationship and not religion. I feel that our society is constantly changing, constantly shifting and people (moreso now than ever) are seeking meaning. From the lovely line graph above, we see that each generation is less religion affiliated than the generation before. That is to say, hypothetically, a parent is way more religious than their children. It makes sense, a child might feel stifled by their parents' religious fervor and seek their own way of thinking...

    But i think its also important to note the other half of this situation. Although you don't include this, i think many would realize that 30+ adults are more religious. Why is this? I think that after a person has spent those years soul searching, trying to find their way in life, they eventually find something that "feels" right and when they settle down (average age for this in our generation is somethinglike 24+, which admittedly is way later than older generations) they are more likely to have their religious affairs in order so as to teach their family...

    Its a cycle I believe, that will continue to perpetuate itself as years go on. A child learns about religion from their parents, falls away from this religion in formative identity years and ends up coming back as their settle down and make their own family ...
    and the cycle continues.

    I don't consider myself particularly religious. And i'm very happy for that reason. I learn, i search, i question and i hope to grow as i do so.
  • veron
    Hey Stephanie,
    Yes I have heard of the Emerging Church. A few years ago, when I began thinking about this blog, etc...and started asking some questions about life, and aspects of my religious experience, I started bumping into others who were asking similar questions(funny how that works huh? ;-)

    I think that conversation has a lot to do with the inevitable backlash many who are unsatisfied w/ the grip of traditionalism and status quo forms of church/institutional Christianity that aren't "working." I don't have all the answers, but I do believe that the inability to at least evaluate the institutional forms of Christianity and ask the hard questions as to their efficiency or lack thereof, is sorely lacking! (Efficiency: as in, is this best doing what the Author intended)...

    Sooo...I DO appreciate, what appears to be the courageous efforts of those in the emerging conversation/progress folks(not sure of all the labels ;-), to at least tackle these questions, and live out what they see as a better way.

    Peter Rollins, Brian McLaren, Donald Miller, Rob Bell, and many more, are some of the authors that have clued me in on some aspects of this conversation...
  • veron
    Now in regards to how religious different generations are...I do think that it is possible to have unique characteristics, despite the cyclical similarities.<Based on other variables> This study seems to show that there may be something to the gen x & millennial generations being less "religious" compared to their parents/grandparents at the same age...

    To say the least...It's an interesting study :->
  • Ronald
    I sure hope we're losing our religion. Then we can finally advance as a species to the next level of consciousness and put the bible in the place where it belongs, in the library with the rest of history's literary fiction wich is no longer relevant in today's modern society.

    Even if that won't happen for another hundred years or so.... i can dream, can't i?
  • veron
    Hi Ronald,
    I'm not sure if whats keeping us from advancing to the next level is the fault of religion.... But my gut tells me its something in both the religious and the nonreligious that potentially compromises our full potential...

    Appreciate your comments...
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